The concept of becoming one in
marriage is both beautiful and biblical. It encompasses becoming one spirit
(Eph 4:3-4), one flesh (Eph 5:31-33, Mark 10:8), and one body (1 Cor 6:16-17),
reflecting complete unity in marriage (Gen 2:24, Matt 19:4-6).
God designed marriage as a
covenant that brings a man and a woman together as one. This devotional aims to
guide you and your partner toward unity, fostering a closer relationship with
God and with each other. May you encounter a strengthening of your love, unity,
and faith through prayer, reflection, and the study of Scripture as you go
through the devotional prayerfully.
Achieving oneness in both
premarital and marital relationships involves:
- Unity of purpose
- Selflessness (Philippians 2:3-4)
- The act of forgiveness (Colossians 3:13)
- Accountability (Ephesians 5:21)
- Effective communication (Ephesians 4:29)
- Intimacy (1 Corinthians 7:3-5) (for the
married).
The concept of living together
under one roof is central to marriage. However, true unity extends beyond just
sharing a home; it involves aligning spiritually, emotionally, and physically.
The essence of Christian marriage lies in becoming one - unified in speech,
purpose, and the heart.
Scripture highlights that a
man leaves his father and mother to unite with his wife, becoming one flesh,
which forms the foundation of the concept of becoming one. (Genesis 2:24,
Matthew 19:6, Mark 10:8). This profound statement reveals that marriage is
more than mere companionship; it is deeply spiritual, emotional, and physical.
When a couple decide to marry, they commit to leaving behind their individual
lives to create a new, unified life together. This process requires a
deliberate and conscious effort to prioritise the marriage above all other
relationships. In this new family unit, the husband and wife become one. By
becoming one, they transform from two distinct individuals into a cohesive
unit, presenting an unbreakable front.
Decision-making,
problem-solving, and daily interactions are key areas where unity in your
relationship is crucial. Transitioning from a “me” to a “we” mindset involves
both partners working together to achieve common goals and offering mutual
support during life’s challenges on their marital journey.
Acts 18 recounts the story of
Aquila and Priscilla, early Christian missionaries featured in the New
Testament. Their marriage was characterised by mutual respect, unity, trust,
and submission. Together, they used their home as a church, welcoming both believers
and non-believers alike (1 Corinthians 16:19).
Aquila and Priscilla’s story
highlights their significant impact on the early church and demonstrates how a
strong, unified marriage can be crucial in advancing the gospel. As exemplary
church leaders, Paul deeply valued their partnership, referring to them as his
"fellow workers in Christ Jesus" and acknowledging their substantial
contributions to the ministry (Romans 16:3-4).
Their example of teamwork and
dedication as a couple underscores the strength found in marital oneness,
serving as a powerful foundation for a stable and impactful marriage.
Becoming one is a journey that
demands effort, commitment, and a shared willingness to grow together. By
embracing these principles, couples can establish a solid foundation for a
lifelong, loving partnership that mirrors the unity and oneness of Christ and
the Church.
CALL TO ACTION:
·
Embrace the journey
of becoming one with your partner.
·
Commit to growing
together, applying these principles to build a strong and enduring
relationship.
·
Let your partnership
reflect the unity and love that Christ exemplifies.
·
Start today—invest in
your marriage and nurture a bond that stands the test of time.